• How to F**K like a Goddess with Alexandra TTL | 46
    Nov 17 2024

    Shownotes

    • What f**king like a goddess truly means

    • How women’s emotions can change the planet

    • Simple steps to take to start healing

    • The difference between conscious and unconscious emotions

    • What alexandra finds humbling about motherhood

    • How to spot a good partner in the first interactions

    Bio

    Alexandra Roxo is an artist, bestselling author of F*ck Like a Goddess, transformational coach and teacher. She has been featured as a guest speaker on many renowned podcasts and onstage at numerous festivals and events worldwide and has also made multiple TV appearances, including two seasons of Netflix’s hit show, Too Hot to Handle.

    Alexandra’s work has been featured in the New York Times, Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue, The Guardian, Nylon and Playboy.

    Her latest book, Dare to Feel, is a journey and handbook to feeling and healing the heart, exploring how to work through common blocks to intimacy and passionate living through the power of deep feeling and embodiment. This book is a candid journey through teachings, stories, rituals, practices and poems that radically invite us into our hearts so we can feel empathy, compassion, deep intimacy and love.




    Timestamps

    00:02:15 - Guest introduction

    00:04:11 - What does fucking like a goddess mean?

    00:05:27 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

    00:08:40 - What a split between your spirituality and sexuality feels like

    00:11:00 - Spirit can exist alongside your body

    00:15:28 - This is the opposite of shame

    00:18:00 - Women’s emotions can change the planet

    00:19:53 - Steps to take to start healing

    00:21:56 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

    00:24:27 - Emotions are signatures of Goddess consciousness

    00:27:39 - The difference between conscious and unconscious emotions

    00:32:22 - Layla and Alexandra drink MOOD Sex Magic™

    00:32:34 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

    00:33:44 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

    00:34:54 - Experience the romantic adventure of a lifetime inside The Tantric Mastermind

    00:38:41 - What it feels like to truly receive from your teachers

    00:40:57 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

    00:46:52 - What alexandra finds humbling about motherhood

    00:48:54 - How to stretch your smallest moments as a mom

    00:50:45 - Spotting a good partner in the first interactions

    00:52:18 - Alexandra describes a truly sacred union

    00:54:25 - Conclusion

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    56 mins
  • This is What Blocks You From Authentic Relating with Starielle Hope| #45
    Nov 3 2024

    Shownotes

    • Why pure play is so important in healing

    • The importance of trusting the pace of your body

    • A simple practice to make emotions conscious

    • Why relational wounding is healed in relationship

    • How to access your partner’s deepest magic

    • What you can do to become more magnetic

    Bio

    Starielle Hope is a relationship and intimacy coach who specializes in working with people who have found success in their careers, but struggle to find the same success in relationships.

    She grew up in a constant state of loneliness that she thought was normal because it was all she had ever known. After feeling terribly isolated because connecting with others didn’t come naturally to her, she experienced a wakeup call in her early 20s when I learned that, not only was this not normal, but she could actually learn how to connect more deeply with others just as she could learn any other skill. So she set out to reverse engineer connection and intimacy for herself.

    Along the way, she discovered that she has a unique talent for taking abstract emotional concepts and breaking them down into tangible, step-by-step processes that those who are more comfortable in their logical/rational minds (like Starielle) can understand and adopt.

    Learning how to connect more deeply with others has improved her happiness and well-being more than anything else she’s ever done, and she absolutely loves sharing what she’s learned along the way.

    Starielle has been doing this work for over a decade now and loves every minute of it. She currently shares the knowledge she’s gathered through one-on-one coaching and online courses and will be publishing her first book later this year.

    Discover more of Starielle’s work and connect with her on her website.



    Timestamps

    00:02:01 - Guest introduction

    00:03:55 - How Layla and Starielle first met

    00:08:30 - Starielle shares a powerful example of magnetism from Layla’s birthday

    00:09:40 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

    00:10:28 - Why pure play is so important in healing

    00:11:34 - Starielle shares about her personal growth path

    00:13:05 - True play is the opposite of trauma

    00:18:13 - Feeling your feelings allows you to sparkle

    00:23:24 - The importance of trusting the pace of your body

    00:23:49 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

    00:28:14 - Starielle shares a simple practice to make emotions conscious

    00:34:00 - Relational wounding is healed in relationship

    00:37:37 - 3 stages of dependence

    00:43:11 - How to access your partner’s deepest magic

    00:44:10 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

    00:45:19 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

    00:46:30 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

    00:49:13 - The different energies of anger

    00:52:43 - Men are meant to be warriors

    00:56:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

    00:59:52 - Why reading women’s signals is so important for men

    01:05:50 - One of the biggest issues Starielle sees with men

    01:09:15 - What you can do to become more magnetic

    01:11:36 - Starielle shares her experience in VITA™ Coaching

    01:15:10 - Conclusion

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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • The History of the High Priestesses with Elayne Kalila Doughty | #44
    Oct 20 2024

    Shownotes

    • Why spiritual connection and ritual are vital for full wellness

    • The importance of connecting to your own personal root lineages

    • How to honor your inner High Priestess

    • The true source of the witch wound

    • Why your High Priestess initiation is a spiral journey, not a destination

    • How to know if you're operating from true love or delusion

    Bio

    Elayne Kalila Doughty, MA, MFT, is an ordained priestess and focalizer of the 13 Moon Mystery School and Rosa Mystica Mystery School. She’s been on a path of passionate service for the past thirty years, inspiring women around the world to unleash their leadership gifts and step into their full potential.

    She is the Dean and Founder of the Priestess Presence School of the Sacred Arts and + Temple which serves a sisterhood of over 100K women around the world. She trains, initiates and ordains women as modern day priestesses, ceremonialists and powerful feminine leaders in all walks of life and professions. She specializes in helping women tap into their deepest wisdom, enabling them to harness their own transformational power to be more effective and whole in every aspect of their lives.

    She is the best selling co-author of The Sacred Call of the Ancient Priestess, and author of The Magdalene Rose Oracle. She is the host of The Red Podcast: A Place for Bold Inspired, Outrageously Courageous & Just a Tad Bit Naughty Women Leaders To Gather… to talk about all the things that are most important in our lives!




    Timestamps

    00:01:53 - Guest introduction

    00:05:07 - Elayne Kalila takes listeners into the inner world of the High Priestess

    00:07:37 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

    00:08:24 - What are the faces of the goddess?

    00:10:40 - Layla and Elayne Kalila explore the opening scene of Wonderwoman

    00:13:50 - Why spiritual connection and ritual are vital for full wellness

    00:16:13 - The specific position High Priestesses held in their cultures

    00:20:42 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

    00:24:33 - The importance of connecting to your own personal root lineages

    00:28:06 - Exploring the source of the witch wound

    00:32:13 - Elayne Kalila’s theory on women in menopause

    00:36:00 - How Layla used meditation as a liferaft for working with terror

    00:41:21 - Unlocking your High Priestess initiation is a spiral journey, not a destination

    00:44:03 - What exactly is the sisterhood wound?

    00:47:37 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

    00:48:47 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

    00:49:54 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

    00:52:09 - The pathway of love

    00:54:57 - Elayne Kalila shares the power of one of her Ayahuasca journeys

    00:57:00 - Love is not one thing, it’s many things

    01:02:55 - How do you know if you're operating from true love or delusion?

    01:08:29 - Elayne Kalila and Layla drink SEX MAGIC™

    01:09:48 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

    01:16:43 - Elayne Kalila explores Mary Magdalene’s lineage vs the Magdalene collective consciousness

    01:23:21 - How do you not get caught in your story as a High Priestess?

    01:26:05 - How to honor your inner High Priestess

    01:28:55 - Conclusion

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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • Sex Gets Better with Age with Laurie Handlers and Michael Gibson | #43
    Oct 6 2024

    Shownotes

    • How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged

    • Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species

    • The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra

    • How Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth

    • Exactly what an RBDSMT conversation is and how it can serve you

    • How to practice consent in a sexy way

    Bio

    Laurie Handlers is the author of 2 international bestselling books, Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and Sex & Happiness: It Gets Better with Age. She empowers people to fall deeply in love with themselves and their partners. An expert in the fields of sexuality, intimacy and relationships, Laurie has taught transformational workshops on topics ranging from releasing past emotional trauma, fearless communication and sacred sexuality since 1978.

    Michael Gibson is a Certified Sex and Happiness Coach, the co-founder of the Academy for Men and creator of the Extraordinary Lovers Experience; a program that guides couples into long lasting conscious-relating to deepen intimacy, communication and connection. His Academy for Men’s Coaching Program trains men in the skills of presence, communication and exquisite touch, focusing on intimacy, pleasure and healing. Michael is known for the quote, “Consent: don’t have sex without it!”

    Partners Michael and Laurie have also created an online community called Laurie Handlers' Inner Circle that serves its members through podcast interviews, online courses and monthly live calls, and offer relationship coaching, workshops and retreats on Extraordinary Love.



    Timestamps

    00:01:36 - Guest introduction

    00:03:26 - The story of how Laurie and Michael met

    00:06:28 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

    00:07:40 - How Laurie stayed available to love as she aged

    00:09:20 - Why older people need boundaries in a different way than younger people

    00:12:45 - What allowed Michael to say yes to Laurie changing his life

    00:15:21 - The stories women tell themselves that block them from opportunity

    00:17:18 - Michael proposes to Laurie in a 5-star Port-a-Potty

    00:18:45 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

    00:23:04 - What made Michael cry at his own wedding

    00:25:30 - There is no expiration date on your highest dreams

    00:27:44 - Why Laurie and Michael believe couples are an endangered species

    00:31:18 - When Laurie knew she didn’t want to be in an open relationship any longer

    00:35:28 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

    00:36:37 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

    00:37:49 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

    00:40:12 - Laurie shares her experience teaching sexuality in the 70’s

    00:44:38 - The core teachings Laurie has learned from Tantra

    00:48:49 - The Tantric tools Laurie has seen help other women and herself the most

    00:54:06 - Layla talks about the foundational philosophy of Tantra

    00:58:54 - Michael explains the saying “Welcome to your life”

    01:01:55 - Tantra gives you hotter sex AND deeper truth

    01:02:49 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

    01:04:16 - How to practice consent in a sexy way

    01:06:53 - Consent is the gift of choice

    01:09:50 - Michael explains what an RBDSMT conversation is

    01:13:04 - How Laurie and Michael’s RBDSMT conversation began

    01:17:33 - The one thing Michael wants men to know

    01:20:59 - Laurie’s top advice for women

    01:23:54 - Michael and Laurie’s message to couples

    01:27:32 - The Return to Love Game

    01:29:28 - Conclusion

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    1 hr and 34 mins
  • Make Your Life a Masterpiece with Gala Darling | EP42
    Sep 22 2024
    • Join Gala on the Vortex Vision channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCURECg3DrQlblbNah9fspCQ

    • Download the Vortex app! https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/id6657993982

    Shownotes

    • Why it’s so important to break the rules

    • How Gala actively chose to make her life her masterpiece

    • Layla’s definition of full spectrum self-love

    • Why overthinking sucks the magic out of life

    • The number one thing people want to manifest

    • A powerful guided EFT tapping exercise

    Bio

    Gala Darling has been revolutionizing the self-help space for close to two decades. Teaching EFT tapping through her unique spiritual pop star lens, she’s helped hundreds of thousands of people step onto a path of emotional healing, radical self-love and expansive living.

    Originally from New Zealand, Gala is the bestselling author of Radical Self-Love: A Guide To Loving Yourself And Living Your Dreams, and Magnetic Mindset: How To Make Love To The Universe And Manifest Anything. She is a TED speaker, has taught at NYU, been featured in every major publication that counts from Vogue to the New York Times and worked with celebrity clients like Rainn Wilson and the original Girlboss, Sophia Amoruso.

    Gala believes deeply that pleasure is your birthright, that the process of becoming your future self should be a joyful one and that feeling good is your job!

    Click here to join Gala on the Vortex Vision YouTube channel and download the Vortex app here.



    Timestamps

    00:01:56 - Guest introduction

    00:03:54 - Why it’s so important to break the rules

    00:06:09 - There are no awards for following the rules

    00:07:03 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

    00:07:47 - Gala actively chose to make her life her masterpiece

    00:09:56 - How nervousness and excitement about the future integrate

    00:13:32 - The importance of experimenting with your personal style

    00:16:35 - No one’s choices come from radical self love 100% of the time

    00:18:21 - Layla explains full spectrum self-love

    00:21:45 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

    00:24:44 - Why overthinking sucks the magic out of life

    00:25:48 - Gala shares her love story

    00:30:21 - The core belief that changed the dating game for Gala

    00:38:26 - An exploration of self-sourcing for women

    00:41:58 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

    00:43:08 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

    00:44:18 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

    00:45:47 - Layla and Gala drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™

    00:47:23 - Why Gala went to Europe for her 40th birthday

    00:51:06 - The number one thing people want to manifest

    00:56:50 - Gala guides listeners through a powerful EFT tapping exercise

    01:00:02 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

    01:02:15 - The science behind EFT tapping

    01:05:56 - Gala shares how we manifest with two hands

    01:07:18 - Conclusion

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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • Finding liberation through sacred rage with Cory Scott | EP41
    Sep 8 2024
    Shownotes What it feels like in the body when you’re holding trauma Exactly what an angergasm is Why emotional liberation is about being able to see yourself in your pain The importance of presence in trauma healing A simple practice for containing emotions and pain Foundational steps for emotional liberation Bio Formally, Cory Scott is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW), a EMDRIA certified Eye Movement and Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR) therapist, a licensed yoga teacher (RYT-500) and a VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coach and senior teacher. As a trauma integration coach, she specializes in supporting highly successful people to resolve lingering trauma patterns that have kept them stuck. She helps them to integrate their experiences, harness their strength and live into freedom and expansion beyond their wildest dreams. Cory’s coaching draws on her extensive experience working with clients and her deep knowledge of trauma, somatics and interpersonal neurobiology. She combines energetic and embodiment practices, along with rewiring and integration tools to unwind trauma responses and re-create a strong, stable, balanced internal ecology. Along with her private client work, Cory also teaches part-time for VITA™ Coaching and provides professional consultation to coaches and therapists. She lives on a 78-acre farm in the mountains of southern Appalachia with her partner of 19 years, their two beautiful children, an old dog, a young dog and a clowder of cats. In addition to her extensive studies, she has gained much of her integrated and embodied wisdom from her own journey of deep trauma healing and personal transformation. To learn more about Cory’s work and connect with her, ⁠click here⁠ to visit her website. Timestamps 00:01:43 - Guest introduction 00:03:38 - Cory’s perspective on trauma healing 00:05:14 - What it feels like in the body when you’re holding trauma 00:06:52 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at ⁠LaylaMartin.com⁠ 00:09:06 - What can stabilization after trauma healing look like? 00:11:47 - Layla shares one of the few regrets she has in life 00:14:44 - Why anger is the same energy as passion 00:16:37 - Discover the ⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification⁠ 00:20:33 - The importance of safety in the trauma world 00:27:22 - It’s possible to experience pleasure and joy in the height of shame and anger 00:29:07 - Layla explains exactly what an angergasm is 00:34:18 - Discover ⁠MOOD™ Sexy Supplements⁠ 00:35:27 - Get Layla’s free ⁠Orgasmic Breathwork Practice⁠ for deeper pleasure 00:36:36 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with ⁠Men’s Sexual Mastery⁠ 00:43:04 - Layla explains how she’s working through relational shame 00:47:56 - Cory shares her personal journey through trauma 00:55:15 - Emotional liberation is about being able to see yourself in your pain 00:59:18 - When to go into safety and calm vs feeling your emotions 01:02:04 - Why presence is so important for trauma healing 01:02:48 - Cory shares a simple practice for containing emotions and pain 01:06:50 - Foundational steps for emotional liberation 01:14:07 - “⁠VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching⁠ is for the leaders of our world” 01:19:23 - Conclusion
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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • Create the relationship you want with Lorin Krenn | EP40
    Aug 25 2024

    Shownotes

    • What early partnership was like for Lorin

    • Why the feminine must risk everything for devotion

    • How sacred sexuality starts outside of the bedroom

    • The truth about escaping your deepest pain

    • What it looks like for a man to stand in his power

    • Practical places spiritual men can be found



    Bio

    Lorin Krenn is an internationally sought after teacher, coach, author and hypnotherapist with a mission to help you create the relationship you want. He has worked with countless clients all over the world, including star performance coaches and highly successful CEOs.

    Lorin is the author of Understand Women Better and Love, Relationships & Awakening. He is known for his deep and powerful, yet relatable and highly practical style of teaching and for his down-to-earth approach to relationships.

    What matters the most to Lorin is practice and direct experience, which is why he trained with exceptionally experienced coaches and teachers to ensure he had a strong and solid foundation before he began teaching. He immerses himself day in and day out, not only doing the deep inner work in his own marriage and spiritual practice, but also working with groups and 1:1 clients to ensure he always stays in practice.

    Lorin’s focus is always on the root cause, or the ‘core’ as he likes to put it, of any relationship challenge, giving his work an intensity and edge that allow for powerful, rapid growth and incredible breakthroughs.

    Lorin’s greatest joy comes from witnessing others experience profound inner shifts and transformations, allowing them to create the life and relationships they truly want.

    Listen to The Lorin Krenn Podcast by clicking here and learn more about his upcoming workshops, programs, and trainings here. Discover Lorin’s most exclusive coaching offer here and find all the details on his books by clicking here.



    Timestamps

    00:01:48 - Guest introduction

    00:03:52 - Layla shares a deeply impactful reading of Lorin’s

    00:05:46 - What early partnership was like for Lorin

    00:08:44 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

    00:09:41 - What it means for a man to make a woman his path

    00:12:26 - How patriarchy broke men’s ability to know their own true mission

    00:16:08 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification

    00:19:30 - How a second chance can shift everything

    00:22:33 - Men know if you are a partner they can fully devote to

    00:26:29 - Every man who chooses relationships out of integrity will go through deep loneliness

    00:31:38 - The feminine has to learn to risk everything for devotion to the highest love

    00:36:05 - How a man’s wounding can prevent him from trusting the feminine

    00:38:18 - What it looks like for a man to stand in his power from a grounded place

    00:38:50 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

    00:40:00 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

    00:41:44 - What polarity actually means to Lorin

    00:47:58 - Layla explains how she experiences and views polarity

    00:50:40 - There is just no way around the most painful work

    00:53:34 - Unlock the most incredible sex with the FREE Epic Sex Guide

    00:57:10 - Why you cannot escape your pain in devotional love

    01:00:52 - A deep, sincere vow to the universe will never go unmet

    01:02:41 - How sacred sexuality starts outside of the bedroom

    01:09:27 - Lorin calls out one of the biggest sexuality myths in the universe

    01:14:17 - What a woman can do to meet a conscious man

    01:20:55 - A man’s spiritual expression can be completely different than a woman’s

    01:25:21 - Spiritual men are found in places where they can serve a deep mission

    01:27:17 - Conclusion

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    1 hr and 29 mins
  • Turning men into sex warriors with BDSM with Om Rupani | EP39
    Aug 11 2024
    Shownotes How BDSM can be the secret to liberation What allows humiliation to have an erotic aspect The reason a man’s first job is to contain a woman Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand What led Om to his professional journey with BDSM The difference between boundaries and control Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together Bio Om Rupani is the author of ⁠Prerequisites to Ecstasy⁠ and has been teaching man-woman relating, sensuality, Tantra & BDSM for over 15 years through both in-person and online workshops worldwide. His passion is to help men & women create thriving, functional and erotically vibrant relationships through his online courses. ⁠Creating The Dominant Man⁠ is designed to help the modern man come into fuller embodiment of his masculinity, dominance and his leadership — both in the world and in his relationships with women. And ⁠What Men Want: A Course For Women⁠, which gives the modern woman a template for how she might create a passionate and harmonious relationship with the man who is ready and trained to lead, cherish and adore her. Om deeply believes that a thriving erotic life needs to be at the center of a happy man-woman dynamic, and he believes we should investigate and embody our Eros in all its nuance and expression. He offers a robust training in the erotic arts, ⁠BDSM Fundamentals And Scene Play Training⁠, which he feels all human beings on the planet should take. Timestamps From 1:09:25 to 1:10:35 MOOD ad - 1:10 00:00:29 - Guest introduction 00:03:17 - Om describes what containment actually means 00:07:13 - What Layla has wished for from past partners 00:07:19 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com 00:10:45 - The importance of addressing upset in a contained state 00:13:25 - What brought Om to his professional journey in BDSM 00:14:20 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 00:18:19 - The biological vulnerability of women 00:20:17 - Om explains what “bad containment” looks like 00:24:24 - What men have lost in the modern world 00:29:15 - Why niceness in a man doesn’t contain a woman 00:33:12 - Om believes men need to reclaim in wolf in them 00:35:32 - The difference between boundaries and control 00:36:08 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass and Men’s Sexual Mastery 00:41:39 - Coming home to your own safety as a woman 00:44:26 - What is a bratty submissive? 00:50:16 - The bitter pill Layla has had to swallow in her healing 00:54:17 - What does it look like to move out of pain and into devotion? 00:63:01 - How fundamental distrust of men keeps women from healthy relationships 01:09:25 - Discover MOOD Sexy Supplements 01:11:03 - Why Tantra and BDSM are often taught together 01:15:19 - No one gets a free pass on dealing with their worthiness 01:20:28 - The truth about why a dom can hold safe space for you 01:28:27 - Why surrendering the ego and sexuality go hand-in-hand 01:33:12 - Conclusion
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    1 hr and 36 mins