• Mark Stibbe (Video) •Understanding Shame and Attachment in Childhood
    Nov 6 2024

    In this conversation the author, Mark Stibbe shares his profound journey from a challenging early life marked by adoption and separation to his experiences in boarding school, where he faced emotional and physical challenges. He discusses the impact of shame and attachment issues stemming from his childhood, the complexities of relationships, and the vulnerability that led to experiences of abuse. Mark reflects on his disillusionment with organized religion and the transformative power of writing as a therapeutic tool in his healing process. His story is one of resilience, the search for love, and the quest for understanding and forgiveness.

    https://www.markstibbe.com/

    Chapters

    00:00Mark Stibbe's Early Life and Adoption Journey

    03:05The Impact of Shame and Attachment Issues

    06:17Boarding School Experience and Second Orphaning

    08:59The Role of Pets in Childhood Attachment

    11:48Resilience and the Absence of Unconditional Love

    14:35Vulnerability to Abuse and the Complexity of Relationships

    17:33The Effects of Sexual Abuse and Guilt

    20:51Navigating the Aftermath of Abuse

    23:44The Need for Healing and Understanding

    33:40Understanding Guilt and Isolation in Abuse

    37:31The Impact of Misbeliefs and Myths on Sexuality

    40:42The Role of Family Secrets in Healing

    51:06Faith and Spirituality: A Personal Journey

    58:08The Hypocrisy of Religious Figures and Abuse

    01:02:35The Therapeutic Power of Writing and Storytelling

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Mark Stibbe (Audio) •Understanding Shame and Attachment in Childhood
    Nov 6 2024

    In this powerful and poignant conversation, Mark Stibbe shares his profound journey from a challenging early life marked by adoption and separation to his experiences in boarding school, where he faced emotional and physical challenges. He discusses the impact of shame and attachment issues stemming from his childhood, the complexities of relationships, and the vulnerability that led to experiences of abuse. Mark reflects on his disillusionment with organized religion and the transformative power of writing as a therapeutic tool in his healing process. His story is one of resilience, the search for love, and the quest for understanding and forgiveness.

    https://www.markstibbe.com/

    Chapters

    00:00Mark Stibbe's Early Life and Adoption Journey

    03:05The Impact of Shame and Attachment Issues

    06:17Boarding School Experience and Second Orphaning

    08:59The Role of Pets in Childhood Attachment

    11:48Resilience and the Absence of Unconditional Love

    14:35Vulnerability to Abuse and the Complexity of Relationships

    17:33The Effects of Sexual Abuse and Guilt

    20:51Navigating the Aftermath of Abuse

    23:44The Need for Healing and Understanding

    33:40Understanding Guilt and Isolation in Abuse

    37:31The Impact of Misbeliefs and Myths on Sexuality

    40:42The Role of Family Secrets in Healing

    51:06Faith and Spirituality: A Personal Journey

    58:08The Hypocrisy of Religious Figures and Abuse

    01:02:35The Therapeutic Power of Writing and Storytelling

    01:06:37Outro Oct 23 2.mp4

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Steve Chalke (video); The incredible development of Oasis with homelessness, education and youth justice.
    Oct 30 2024

    In this conversation, Steve Chalke discusses the ethos and values of Oasis, (not the pop group) the organization he founded to alleviate poverty and support marginalized communities. He shares his personal journey, the challenges he faced, and the vision behind Oasis, emphasizing the importance of inclusion, understanding, and rehabilitation in society. Chalke highlights innovative approaches to youth justice, particularly through the Oasis Restore project, which aims to provide therapeutic care rather than punishment for young offenders. The discussion also touches on the significance of creating opportunities for young people and the role of accountability and leadership in charitable organizations.

    Check out the links below to learn more about their work with youth justice, homelessness, education and much more.

    https://www.oasisrestore.org/

    https://www.oasisuk.org/

    https://www.oasiscommunityhousing.org/

    Author, speaker, TV and radio presenter, businessman, social entrepreneur, husband and father, Rev Steve Chalke MBE began public life as a Baptist Minister being ordained in 1981.

    In 1985 he founded the Oasis Charitable Trust with a vision to build inclusive communities, where everyone has hope, feels that they matter and is given the opportunity to achieve their God-given potential. Oasis pioneers life-transforming housing, healthcare, education, church, and youth and community initiatives across the UK and the world.

    Oasis works in ‘community hubs’ to provide a range of integrated and high quality services that support people holistically; educationally, physically, socially, spiritually, emotionally, economically and environmentally.

    Steve has inspired numerous key initiatives in Oasis, which retain his involvement, including:

    • Oasis College of Higher Education in London, in partnership with Staffordshire University, is committed to equipping and resourcing students with the skills, knowledge and understanding to improve the quality of life for their families and communities;

    • Oasis Community Learning, has opened over 40 primary, secondary and all-through schools around the UK, and is committed to education and holistic community regeneration;

    • Oasis Church in Waterloo, London, the first of a new network of UK churches which includes others in Bristol, Croydon, Enfield, Grimsby, Salford and Southampton;

    • Stop The Traffik, a global coalition working in nearly 100 countries and with tens of thousands of activists around the world campaigning to end people trafficking. Steve was a United Nations Special Adviser for community action against human trafficking;

    • People’s Parliament, which creates a place of debate, discussion, interaction and partnership for voluntary organisations with the aim of building more effective relationships between the government and the third sector.

    In 2018, Rev Steve Chalke received the Spirit of London Award for the most amount of money raised for charity by an individual at the London Marathon, when he completed the 2011 race. He raised an incredible £2,330,159.38 for the Oasis UK charity.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Steve Chalke (audio) Steve Chalke (video); The incredible development of Oasis with homelessness, education and youth justice
    Oct 30 2024

    In this conversation, Steve Chalke discusses the ethos and values of Oasis, (not the pop group) the organization he founded to alleviate poverty and support marginalized communities. He shares his personal journey, the challenges he faced, and the vision behind Oasis, emphasizing the importance of inclusion, understanding, and rehabilitation in society. Chalke highlights innovative approaches to youth justice, particularly through the Oasis Restore project, which aims to provide therapeutic care rather than punishment for young offenders. The discussion also touches on the significance of creating opportunities for young people and the role of accountability and leadership in charitable organizations.

    Check out the links below to learn more about their work with youth justice, homelessness, education and much more.

    https://www.oasisrestore.org/

    https://www.oasisuk.org/

    https://www.oasiscommunityhousing.org/

    Author, speaker, TV and radio presenter, businessman, social entrepreneur, husband and father, Rev Steve Chalke MBE began public life as a Baptist Minister being ordained in 1981.

    In 1985 he founded the Oasis Charitable Trust with a vision to build inclusive communities, where everyone has hope, feels that they matter and is given the opportunity to achieve their God-given potential. Oasis pioneers life-transforming housing, healthcare, education, church, and youth and community initiatives across the UK and the world.

    Oasis works in ‘community hubs’ to provide a range of integrated and high quality services that support people holistically; educationally, physically, socially, spiritually, emotionally, economically and environmentally.

    Steve has inspired numerous key initiatives in Oasis, which retain his involvement, including:

    • Oasis College of Higher Education in London, in partnership with Staffordshire University, is committed to equipping and resourcing students with the skills, knowledge and understanding to improve the quality of life for their families and communities;

    • Oasis Community Learning, has opened over 40 primary, secondary and all-through schools around the UK, and is committed to education and holistic community regeneration;

    • Oasis Church in Waterloo, London, the first of a new network of UK churches which includes others in Bristol, Croydon, Enfield, Grimsby, Salford and Southampton;

    • Stop The Traffik, a global coalition working in nearly 100 countries and with tens of thousands of activists around the world campaigning to end people trafficking. Steve was a United Nations Special Adviser for community action against human trafficking;

    • People’s Parliament, which creates a place of debate, discussion, interaction and partnership for voluntary organisations with the aim of building more effective relationships between the government and the third sector.

    In 2018, Rev Steve Chalke received the Spirit of London Award for the most amount of money raised for charity by an individual at the London Marathon, when he completed the 2011 race. He raised an incredible £2,330,159.38 for the Oasis UK charity.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Nora Stern;(video) AI as a Therapeutic Ally: Enhancing the Therapist-Client Relationship
    Oct 23 2024

    In this enlightening episode, David and Naomi engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Nora Stern, co founder of Affinity AI. They delve into the innovative ways artificial intelligence can enhance therapeutic practices, discussing the potential benefits and challenges of integrating AI into mental health services. Nora shares insights on how AI can assist therapists in managing their workload, improving patient engagement, and providing valuable tools for therapy sessions.

    **Key Topics Discussed:** - Nora's background and the mission of Affinity AI - The role of AI in summarizing therapy sessions and creating homework exercises for clients - The importance of therapist involvement in AI interactions - Potential applications of AI in high-need mental health services, such as prisons and secure hospitals - The development of AI models trained by psychologists to deliver therapy in a human-like manner - Addressing the challenges of accessibility in mental health services for underrepresented communities - The unique advantages of human therapists in understanding emotional nuances that AI may struggle to replicate

    https://www.affiniti.ai/

    nora.stern@affinity.ai

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    43 mins
  • Nora Stern;(audio) AI as a Therapeutic Ally: Enhancing the Therapist-Client Relationship
    Oct 23 2024

    In this enlightening episode, David and Naomi engage in a thought-provoking conversation with Nora Stern, co founder of Affinity AI. They delve into the innovative ways artificial intelligence can enhance therapeutic practices, discussing the potential benefits and challenges of integrating AI into mental health services. Nora shares insights on how AI can assist therapists in managing their workload, improving patient engagement, and providing valuable tools for therapy sessions.

    **Key Topics Discussed:** - Nora's background and the mission of Affinity AI - The role of AI in summarizing therapy sessions and creating homework exercises for clients - The importance of therapist involvement in AI interactions - Potential applications of AI in high-need mental health services, such as prisons and secure hospitals - The development of AI models trained by psychologists to deliver therapy in a human-like manner - Addressing the challenges of accessibility in mental health services for underrepresented communities - The unique advantages of human therapists in understanding emotional nuances that AI may struggle to replicate

    https://www.affiniti.ai/

    nora.stern@affinity.ai

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    43 mins
  • Judith Edwards; (audio) "Grandmotherland: Exploring the Ties That Bind Generations
    Oct 16 2024

    In this episode, we sit down with Judith Edwards, an experienced child and adolescent psychotherapist, to discuss her latest book, "Grandmotherland." Judith shares her insights on the profound impact of grandparenting, the complexities of familial relationships, and the importance of subjective experiences in understanding our lives. Join us as we explore the intersections of psychoanalysis, culture, and the unique role of grandmothers in shaping family dynamics.

    https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0075417X.2024.2358905

    Grandmotherland: exploring the myths and realities; by Judith Edwards, London, Karnac, 2023, 176 pp., £18.99 (paperback), ISBN 9781913494773

    Judith Edwards is a child and adolescent psychotherapist. She worked for over thirty years at the Tavistock Clinic in London. The Tavistock is the foremost institute for training and for the application of psychological therapies in the UK. Love the Wild Swan: The Selected Works of Judith Edwards was published by Routledge in their World Library of Mental Health series, and her edited book, Psychoanalysis and Other Matters: Where Are We Now? was also published by Routledge. From 1996 to 2000, she was joint editor of the Journal of Child Psychotherapy. Apart from her clinical experience, one of her principal interests is in the links between psychoanalysis, culture, and the arts, as well as making psychoanalytic ideas accessible to a wider audience. She has an international academic publishing record and in 2010 was awarded the Jan Lee memorial prize for the best paper linking psychoanalysis and the arts during that year: ‘Teaching & Learning about Psychoanalysis: Film as a teaching tool’.

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    32 mins
  • Helen Garlick; (Video) In the Shadow of Secrets: Embracing Family Truths
    Oct 9 2024
    In this conversation Helen Garlick discusses her book 'No Place to Lie' and the impact of family secrets. She shares her personal experience of discovering her brother's suicide and her mother's hidden sexuality after their deaths. The central themes of the book include family secrets, the power of communication, connection, and community, and the importance of love. Helen emphasizes the healing process and taking responsibility for our own healing. She also discusses the challenges of living with secrets and the impact they have on relationships and self-identity. Helen Garlick discusses the impact of family secrets and the power of writing to heal and transform. Helen emphasizes the importance of talking about and sharing our stories to lift the shame and isolation associated with family secrets. She also discusses the therapeutic benefits of writing and the process of writing her memoir. Helen encourages others to write their own stories and offers writing retreats to help people explore and express their experiences. She concludes by recommending the healing power of nature and the importance of connecting with the wildness around us.

    Helen Garlick is the author of ‘No Place to Lie’ about family secrets. Formerly a family lawyer, mediator and trainer, she is now continuing to working on her own writing including the power of owning your own story. She has run coastal writing retreats in North Devon and is a true believer in the healing power of blue whether the sea or other bodies of water. She is strongly in favour of busting the shame/silence around family secrets and has a youtube channel called Hello It’s Better to Talk.

    She currently lives in Devon with her husband Tim Rice (not that one) and three dogs. Between them they have five adult children.

    Twitter @helenpgarlick

    Instagram @helenpgarlick

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    51 mins