Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

By: A.J. Mahari
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  • A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 34 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.
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Episodes
  • Borderlines Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles
    Dec 26 2024
    Borderline Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles

    Borderline’s mixed signals and Codependent fantasy bonds. Borderlines in relationships give endless mixed signals like telling you how much they love after traumatizing behaviour or while still ghosting you, or after having ghosted or even for years discarded you. Saying in Hoovers, they love you, they need to figure out how to let you go - end the relationship - but they don’t know how. Meanwhile you love them, you focus on them to the detriment of yourself as an Ex and Codependent. You need to let that BPD Ex go, but, you don't know how.

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    28 mins
  • Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings Why pw BPD Get More Than Average
    Dec 26 2024
    Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - Why pw/BPD Get More Than Average

    Borderlines Tattoos and Piercings - why people with BPD get more tattoos and/or piercings than non-Borderlines.

    A commenter (on Youtube) asked if a woman has an excessive amount of tattoos, could this be a dating red flag that she has BPD. I answer this question about Borderlines and tattoos and explain why people with BPD do, in fact, have many more body modifications- tattoos and piercings than those without BPD and several key reasons why people with Borderline Personality get tattoos and piercings so often. In a high percentage of a study they found that 22.41% of people with BPD had tattoos over at least 10% of their bodies.

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    33 mins
  • BPD Relationship Ruptures Are All Relationships Just Hard Work?
    Dec 15 2024
    BPD Relationship Ruptures Are All Relationships Just Hard Work?


    BPD relational ruptures and an answer to a Codependent commentor's question are BPD and all relationships just hard work wherein I explain the differences between BPD relationships and healthy relationships. I also answer the question, "How can you tell if it's the person with BPD or yourself as a Codependent?" In other words, is it my BPD partner and his or her BPD or is it me, the Codependent? Why do so many with Codependency believe that they are to blame for BPD relationship ruptures and BPD relationship impossibility?

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    25 mins

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Thanks very helpful

Thanks very good information,so helpful in understanding all this. Helping me make sense of all this

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Really helpful

Very helpful - honest and realistic therapy. It reminds the listener to think of themselves not the bpd!

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