In this episode, Tom and Michael take a deep dive into a topic many gay men, especially those over 50, often grapple with: regret. From personal, professional, and sexual regrets to those uniquely colored by LGBTQ+ experiences, they explore the nuances of "gay regret." What types of regret do we carry? And, more importantly, can regret be used to improve our lives rather than hold us back?
Join the conversation as we unpack the complex layers of regret and discover ways to turn these feelings into something positive.

💙, Tom & Michael

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

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This week's sponsor:

Kirk Bremer AIF® Financial Advisor
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123 G Street, Suite 206 | Salida, CO 81201
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Reach out to Kirk to schedule a consultation!

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In this episode, Michael and Tom dive into the hot topic of hooking up vs. dating! They break down the differences, share the pros and cons of today's dating scene, and take a hard look at the common complaints within the over 50 Gay Community. Are we the reason we're bitter about dating, or is it really the people we're meeting?

Tune in as we get real about the struggles, triumphs, and what it all means for finding connection in today's world.

💙, Tom & Michael

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

After our eye-opening episode last season on financial readiness and planning for the future, we realized this conversation needed to go even deeper.

We were thrilled when Kirk Bremer, AIF®, reached out after watching that episode to share his expert insights on the five essential plans everyone needs to have in place for a secure future. Some of these may surprise you!

Join us as we address your comments and concerns about aging, financial security, and the anxieties that come with it. But most importantly, we'll provide actionable steps to help you get organized and move confidently toward a more stable future.

Enjoy the episode!

💙, Tom & Michael
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This episode was sponsored by:
Kirk Bremer AIF® Financial Advisor
Maverick Wealth Group
720-688-3844
kirk@maverickwealthgroup.com
www.maverickwealthgroup.com
123 G Street, Suite 206 | Salida, CO 81201
Securities offered through Parkland Securities, LLC; Member FINRA/SIPC.
Investment advisory services offered through SPC, a registered investment advisor.
Maverick Wealth Group is independent of Parkland Securities, LLC and SPC.
FINRA 2248686 | CO 112444

Reach out to Kirk to schedule a consultation!

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

In this episode, Michael and Tom tackle the complexities of voting, breaking down everything from the Electoral College to swing states and more. With Election Day just around the corner, they’ll explain how the system works and, most importantly, share practical ways for you to get involved and make your vote count this election season. Whether you're a first-time voter or a seasoned pro, this episode is packed with useful insights to ensure your voice is heard!

Take a moment to visit Vote.org to double-check your voter registration. It only takes a few minutes to ensure you’re ready to cast your ballot!

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

In this episode, Tom and Michael revisit listener feedback from their recent discussion on PTSD, uncovering a common theme: as gay men, we’ve all endured multiple layers of trauma—often sharing similar experiences. While we can’t solve this issue in a single episode, continuing the conversation is a crucial step toward healing. Join us as we delve deeper into the many facets of gay trauma and explore how, together, we can begin the healing process.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

In this episode of No 2 Gays About It, Tom and Michael get real about ageism in the gay community—from experiences in the workplace to dealing with age-related bias in healthcare. They discuss how ageism creeps into different aspects of our lives, what we can do to push back, and when embracing our age is the most empowering choice we can make. Join us as we explore the impact of ageism and share practical ways to combat it while living authentically at every stage of life.

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

After a summer of fun, Michael is left wondering if Monogamy in Gay Relationships is going the way of the dinosaurs. In this video, we'll explore the pros and cons of the different types of relationships between gay men, what they're all saying about each other, and whether or not Monogamy is in fact dead.

Welcome back to an all new season of No 2 Gays About It!

💙, Tom & Michael

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Welcome to Season 4 of No 2 Gays About It. By now you know we ask the questions important to Gay Men over 50 who are just doing their best in today's world. We get the conversation started and we can't continue it with you!

Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024

It feels like all of our conversations have lead up to this; gay men and PTSD. To say that we've experienced trauma during our many years on this planet is an understatement.

We'll take a look at all the reasons why we carry around so much baggage from childhood trauma to the AIDS crisis, as well as talk about ways we can lift ourselves, and others, out from under its effects.

Join us for this very important conversation.

💙,
Tom & Michael

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Who else but two gay guys over 50 with differing backgrounds lifestyles and viewpoints can lead the discussion on the topics important to the over 50 gay community? When it comes to Tom Burke and Michael Foley, there’s definitely No 2 Gays About It!

Season 3 explores the different ways, we as Gay Men over 50, seek companionship. Join us on this journey and let us know what type of Companionship YOU want us to talk about.
Here are the different ways you can get involved:

Join our Patreon for early access to videos, episodes, and more! PATREON

SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE

Email us at No2GaysAboutIt@gmail.com

Follow us on Instagram @No2GaysAboutIt
And join our thriving Facebook community NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT
We're on TikTok @No2GaysAboutIt
Visit our Website NO 2 GAYS ABOUT IT

JLV Productions | 2024