This week, Don and Eva tackle a heated AITA post that’s sparking plenty of opinions. A mother is thinking about taking her ex-husband to court to help pay for their child’s private school tuition after discovering he’s planning to pay tuition at the same school for his other child with his current wife. The twist? The ex might not be able to afford both, and tensions are running high as questions of fairness, finances, and parental responsibility come into play.

Don and Eva break down the situation, debating whether the mom is justified in her actions or if she’s stirring up unnecessary drama. They discuss the challenges of co-parenting, the complexities of blended families, and the emotional weight of trying to do what’s best for your child. Is she the a**hole? Call us and tell us what you think at 312-788-7827, or tell us what you think on our Facebook page.

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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss the lasting influence of high school coaches and the powerful impact they have on shaping our character and future. Whether you were an athlete, mathlete, academic decathlete, debater, mock trial member, or watched it all from the sidelines, coaches often play a pivotal role in our development—far beyond the field, court, or stage. Join us as we share personal stories, discuss life lessons learned through discipline, teamwork, and perseverance, and reflect on how these experiences continue to guide our decisions today.

Did your high school coach help mold the person you’ve become? Share your memories in the comments and join our thought-provoking conversation on the connections between sports, leadership, and personal growth.

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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss their recent experience of moving kids into their college dorms and how it’s changed over the years. They’ll compare the practical, no-frills dorm decorating of the 90s—milk crates and posters, anyone?—to the carefully coordinated, Pinterest-inspired setups of today - powered by parents.

We’ll also examine the shift in parenting styles, discussing how Gen X parents are much more involved in their kids’ college lives compared to the hands-off approach many boomer parents took. Join us for a conversation about how these changes reflect broader cultural shifts and what it means for students and families alike.

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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss the evolution of college move-in day and how it has drastically changed from Generation X to Generation Z. From the days of landlines and Mapquest to the era of iPhones and Life360, we explore the key differences in how each generation tackled the big move and letting go. Were dorm setups, parental involvement, and the emotional rollercoaster the same for both generations? Join us as we compare stories and consider how cultural and technological shifts have transformed this rite of passage over the past thirty years. Whether you're a Gen Xer reminiscing or a millennial reflecting on your own experience, this episode is sure to bring up (hopefully fond) memories and laughter around move-in day.

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What do you do when your spouse wakes you up and asks you to install the ESPN app on her iPad? You install it - no questions asked. Unless you don't want to watch a documentary at 5 am and discuss it. Then you ask as many questions as possible.

On the episode, Don and Eva discuss the 30 for 30 Shorts documentary "Strike Team." As strategists by trade, they break down some of the possible holes in the US Marshall's plan to scam fugitives in bulk, and marvel at the genius behind the sting operation that still stands out in the history books today.

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Richard Simmons, Shannen Doherty, Dr. Ruth Westheimer... and more celebrities from our youth passed away in the last few days. What does that say about us? Are we not long for this world?

In this episode, Don and Eva discuss how they feel when a beloved or at least well-known celebrity from their formative years passes away. From the nostalgia of childhood memories to the sobering reality of their own mortality, they discuss how these moments can profoundly impact us - or not. Why does the loss of a public figure feel so deeply personal? Whether you're grappling with recent news or simply curious about this unique aspect of human connection, this is an episode that you will want to chat about with your friends and family.

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Don and Eva are live in New Orleans! In this episode, Don and Eva discuss the food they have had in New Orleans and debate the merits of having dessert for breakfast. They are in New Orleans to compete in the Essence Film Festival Podcast Competition. They were first named finalists, and then an official selection, meaning that they will present the show at a screening at Essence Fest. This episode was recorded in Lafayette Square, and is unedited *gasp* for your listening... pleasure? Enjoy!

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What was your first job? Do you do anything remotely related to that job today? In this episode, Don and Eva share intimate details from their first jobs. From working in the family businesses to working at nightclubs, these two have had some really interesting places of employment. Have you? Can you top the jobs that Don and Eva had as teens?

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