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Small Talk

10 ADHD lies and how to stop believing them

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Small Talk

By: Richard Pink, Roxanne Pink
Narrated by: Richard Pink, Roxanne Pink
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Brought to you by Penguin.

Rich and Rox, the
Sunday Times bestselling authors of DIRTY LAUNDRY, are back with more warm, empathetic and down-to-earth advice to help those with ADHD and autism live authentic, bold and happy lives.

Writing as a team, Rich and Rox share funny and heartwarming stories about creating a safe and happy neurodivergent household for themselves and for Rich's autistic nonbinary child, living with ADHD, navigating step-parenthood and learning to be an ally for your loved ones. It will help you transform frustration into patience and compassion, giving you strategies that make life easier, improve communication and reduce shame for people across the neurodivergent spectrum.

Rich and Rox will help you: - Stop feeling guilty for thinking differently - Understand what masking is, and how to stop (if you want to) - Learn strategies for getting through daily life - Communicate your struggles to those who love you - Support your autistic child - Navigate step-parenting with ADHD - Create a safe and supportive space for the neurodivergent people in your life, and much more!

©2024 Richard Pink and Roxanne Pink (P)2024 Penguin Audio
Attention Deficit Disorders Mental Health Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Social Psychology & Interactions Stress Management Inspiring Funny Autism Happiness

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A (self) love letter to those whose brains are beautifully and uniquely different. Speaking from lived experience, Rox and Rich manage to shift the paradigm associated with ADHD, which up until now has been riddled with lies and misinformation. This book reminds readers that rather than having a disorder, they are simply differently ordered and when managed with kindness, it can become their superpower! (Riyadh Khalaf , broadcaster, Youtuber and winner of Celebrity MasterChef 2020)
Pre ADHD diagnosis I read so many self development books. I used to try to implement what I learned and would feel like a failure, feel frustrated and blame myself for being lazy when I couldn’t get those strategies to work for me. Books like this are so important for people with ADHD to break free from holding our selves to Neurotypical standards. (Rach Idowu, 'Adulting with ADHD' Neurodivergency advocate)
My whole life i’ve beaten myself up, comparing myself to my peers & wondering why i can’t handle life like them. but actually, ADHD has made me incredibly special, ambition, determined & capable of the most amazing things that others aren’t & for that, i think neurodiversity is a beautiful thing. (Becky Hill)

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Everything I wish I had known as the parent of an undiagnosed ADHDer 30 years ago

Thank you for writing this book. I will be listening over and over again, and buying it in print. It’s value is beyond words. Thank you.

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amazing

I can't believe I read this all the way through, understanding every part of it. when I got diagnosed a year ago I was completely lost. I found rich and rox on FB and was blown away. I found this book soon after and my life began to make sense and all the things is struggled with in life became a little more clear. I was realising I wasn't alone. the book is written so well that I felt like they were with me on my journey of self discovery as I read each page I was in awe at the way they seemed to understand me by just filling in my empty mind gaps! I'm actually thankful that I found these two amazing people. They really don't know how they've helped change my life in the last year and for the future too. I owe them so much. thank you Rich and Rox for helping me with my life.

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Wow….

I don’t ever usually write reviews… but all I want to say is … Thankyou ❤️
Please read this if you have ADHD.. 🤍

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I have never felt more seen

As someone who is struggling with ADHD, this made me feel so seen and I spend most of it shaking my head in disbelief that I am not alone in my feelings and that there is actually a compassionate way to look at my brain! Thank you very much for writing this!

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amazing must read

Love that it's narrated by them but what I love most is the sentiment. Recognising and explaining how neurodivergent people may struggle and (perhaps more importantly) how this can so badly impact them and providing ways to live with better self beliefs and understanding.
All people should listen to this but especially those who know someone neurodivergent.
This will be a repetition book for me, listening over and over throughout my life.

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More ADHD lightbulb Moments

I've listened to a lot of ADHD books and podcasts since my diagnosis. Chapter 8 really resonated with me, the fact I don't cry, have masked all my feelings and my OH struggles to manage my feelings or perceived laziness and faffing about. Always something new to discover!

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The BEST book on ADHD

I could step into Rox shoes so well... to have someone understand you better than you do yourself is just gold and freeing

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So glad I found it!

Raw, personal experiences that hit home in every single chapter... I'm beyond extatic for finding the book. Although I'm not officially diagnosed (I would have to arrange a doctor's appointment, and we know how much admin is involved in that!) and some of the examples were more hardcore than in my life, I could relate and be surprised at everything I heard. I've left the love of my life after 15 years full of mostly love and support (with the occasional frustration at my messy housekeeping) because I felt unwanted, useless and unloved. Now I feel even more stupid for letting go of such an amazing friend and soulmate, who had my back and thought me how to survive in this world...

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So relatable

This is the book you need to listen to ( or read) if you care about an Adhder . Especially if you believe we “ play the card” or don’t do the thing you want us to do as good as you would like us too. Trauma? Much !

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A must read for ADHDers and their loved ones.

I wasn’t sure if I was going to get this second book by the pinks, but it was totally worth it, every chapter resonated with feelings I have had as a person with ADHD and I really hope my partner will listen because I think it gives the best insight into how I feel about myself and how I feel I could be supported by my partner. It’s on my essential reading list I will give to any person I encounter with ADHD.

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