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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

By: Ramani Durvasula PhD
Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
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Summary

Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening?

Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again?

Does your partner make promises, only to break or betray your trust repeatedly?

Is your partner controlling or just plain mean?

Have you read every relationship book out there, practiced your communication skills, and still feel unheard or neglected?

Are you done with second chances?

Should you stay or should you go?

We live in a world of romance and rescue - where everyone believes love will conquer all, and the more we put up with, the more loving we are being. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes we choose mean people, and before long we are in so deep, we don't know whether we are coming or going. One day you want to fight harder, and the next day you are ready to pack it in, and the next day you want to fight harder.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.

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I'm hooked on. Exactly what i needed!

I read this book when i was experiencing a tough time in my marriage - it opened up and confirmed so many things that were at the back of my mind (that i wasn't going mad). After reading this book (should i say listening via audible :)) -I plucked up the courage to leave my husband of 8 years due to his narcissist behavior ( plus emotional abuse). I have referred this book to my dearest sister who is experiencing a relationship with a narcissist too and i have also mentioned it to our domestic violence support group. What appealed to me on this book was that it looked at both options of leaving or staying making it easier to make informed decisions. I think it is great. I have read it so many times and each time I listen to each- i hear something new. Thank you very much Dr Ramani. Great work

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Life Changing

Thank you so much Dr. Ramani for sharing this gem, it truly helped me understand and evaluate the relationships in my life ❤️

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perfect

i am high on validation because this book describes my very existence up until nearly 2 months ago

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Life changing!

An amazing book that has helped me so very much - Thank you! Onwards and upwards from here for me - God Bless you 🙏😘 xx

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Great book

Narrated by the author herself which is great , best book I listened on Audible and definitely a must read for those people that want to understand narcissism . Do not think twice about getting it ! Thankyou Dr Durvasula

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Dr Ramani is inspirational

A must read!! Very useful advice and clear understanding on the narcissistic relationship. Easy to listen to

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Life changing

I consumed this in about 5 days - could not stop listening! So much fascinating insight and has given me so much clarity on my ex relationship with a narcissist. Thank you, Dr Ramani for helping me build back and grow my rich emotional knowledge, vocabulary and world. 💕

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A masterpiece! Read it and you’ll find your answer

Opened my eyes to my experiences, my partner, provided clarity and insights, and most importantly gave me the power to move on and save my life. Full of practical tips, wisdom and great insights

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Definitely worth the read

This book is well set out, meaningful and in depth. I'd highly recommend to anyone in a relationship with a narcissist.

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Amazing!

A very candid insight into personality disorders. Ramani is not here to bore you, bloviate on academic jargon, but she is solely here to expose the reality of “normal people” and their treacherous behaviour.

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