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  • How to Survive a Divorce

  • Your Guide on Navigating One of Life's Most Difficult Times
  • By: Vanesa Esperas
  • Narrated by: Hailey Knoll
  • Length: 1 hr and 16 mins
  • 5.0 out of 5 stars (9 ratings)

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How to Survive a Divorce

By: Vanesa Esperas
Narrated by: Hailey Knoll
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Summary

Divorce is a lot like losing someone. It is the death of a marriage. It is a sheer and brutal act of abandonment. It is extremely personal. Even after the meanest separation or divorce that caught you off guard, you may achieve this level of self-acceptance and forgiveness. This doesn’t mean you deny what they did to you or run away from the pain. Instead, you allow yourself to experience it all—the guilt, shame, anger, and disappointment—and move through it.

Only once you have passed through the many emotional stages of a divorce can you allow a new life to unfold. If that’s how you’re feeling right now, this book is for you. In this book you'll learn the different stages of how to survive a divorce.

  • Divorce is an emotional roller coaster.
  • Sitting with your feelings to properly mourn your broken relationship.
  • When is the proper time to rebuild and reinvent.
  • The undeniable power of forgiveness.
  • When to seek support, socialize, and reach out.
  • Self-care--why you need it more than ever.
  • Reconnect with your passions and hobbies.
  • Recognize that life doesn't stop here; you will be ready to date again and have new beginnings.

Know that you will survive. It may take some time, but you will come out stronger, with a different perspective on life and what you look for in a partner. Some people will refrain from dating again after a divorce, understandably so, but don't lock that door. Leave it open just in case you decide you're ready. You deserve to be happy and in love again.

©2022 Vanesa Esperas (P)2022 Vanesa Esperas
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A truly indispensable guide

I recently came out of a troubled marriage, and I found myself forced to analyze my life to realize that it was not going according to plan.

This audiobook really helped me through a dark time like post-divorce, and now it is allowing me to get back on track.

Recommended to anyone who is going through this hard time.

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Good for those just starting a divorce

This book has a lot of great information for those that are just entering the process of a divorce. Divorces are hard and can be really painful. This book will help you process your emotions and states and get you to go through the process as much as possible at your own pace. Great book for anyone going through this extremely hard time.

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You have to grieve a divorce

When you've been heartbroken and find yourself in a divorce, anger is easy to access. You can think about all the ways your partner let you down and all the ways you let yourself down. To get over a divorce, you have to learn to grieve over the life you had and the future you can no longer have. You have to feel through all the strange, overwhelming and big emotions. This book is what you need to gather the pieces of your heart and build yourself back up without coping using unhealthy behaviors. You learn who you are again and that's healing.

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There is Hope!

A really well written audiobook with useful insights into forgiveness and ways to become a better/bigger person in the aftermath of divorce. Helpful suggestions about self care and moving on. It leaves you feeling hopeful whilst being realistic about the stages you need to go through to achieve happiness again
If I were still working as a divorce attorney,I’d have been recommending this to clients!

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Spoke to me

Wonderful book full of helpful advice and with a soothing narrative voice. I've recently been divorced and I gained a lot of insight out of this book on my own inner struggles, but also learnt how to take those thoughts and turn them into positive reflections for when I am ready to meet someone new. I can highly recommend this book to anyone struggling with moving on in their life after divorce.

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A great healing tool

I've seen divorce first hand and it isn't nice to watch people go through such a tough time. I was so interested to listen to this. It takes you through the right steps in order to heal and get back out on the dating scene. I very much liked chapter 2 and how to rebuild and reinvent yourself. The author really knows the right things to say and advice to give. It's the perfect length for commuting to work or a car journey. This will help you build your confidence and help you to become you again.

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Amazing Audiobook On Surviving Divorce

This guide by Vanessa Esperas on surviving a divorce was so beneficial for me. I found the content to be top quality and inspiring during such a tough time in most peoples lives. It touches upon many factors but one in particular was when to know when you're ready to get back out there in the dating world, which really resonated with me. If you're struggling through a divorce and are looking for an audiobook to help with top notch quality, pick up a copy of this book here!

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Light at the end of a dark tunnel

This audiobook gave me such excellent insight into what people are experiencing during the stages of divorce. I help people for a living and sadly, so many of my clients are experiencing relationship issues, not knowing how they will ever repair these problems. When they are going through this dark time, not only will I be recommending this audiobook, I will also be able to guide them through these tough times emotionally. Highly recommend this book!

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Accurate and heartfelt

A reminder that this is not your fault, that you are stronger than you think / feel and not to hang around waiting for someone who doesn’t think you’re worth treating with honesty. A very helpful read.

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