One of the most important books I will ever read

It’s inconvenient to hear that the way women today drink is dangerous for them, society and future generations. This book could not have come into my life at a more important time. It is not ok how much society accepts the middle class addiction to alcohol, and downplays its consequences. This book gives me clear reasons to stop (I’m a light drinker, not anywhere close to having an addiction but that’s not the point). We spend exceptional amounts on yoga, meditation, retreats, self help books. Do yourself a favour and buy this book. Particularly if you are a high performing, high achieving, financially well off professional woman. Thanks Ann for having the strength to write about such a taboo subject.

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This book became my friend

I love the way this book is composed, it is not chronologically linear, it brings in various narratives... It feels really intimate, and it feels loving and healing.

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Cheesy but ok.

Would you recommend this book to a friend? Why or why not?

It is pretty typical American cheese.

The author lost me when she seemed to think having a third glass of wine was the crime of the century. It is not clear how/why she ended up in rehab if this was all she drank.

She skips back and forth between pre- and post- giving up drinking so the train of her journey is not clear. She also randomly intersperses stories from other women.

She talks far too much about her childhood, relationships and child and it is not clear most of the time how these relate to her alleged alcoholism.

On the plus side, she talks intelligently about Scotland and even manages to recognise England & Wales is a separate jurisdiction.

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A must listen for sober curious

Loved the storytelling and in-depth review from Ann on the marketing industry's impact on alcohol acceptance. the rawness of her own journey was compelling.

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I thoroughly enjoyed this book

Having heard a few, well just the beginnings of some, books on alcohol / getting sober, I can say I enjoyed this book from beginning to end. I found the author's life story fascinating. She was honest, intelligent and the book read like a story i didnt want to put down. The many interviews throughout the book were interesting, thought provoking and gave the angle of the drinker and the family / friends of the drinker, each interview reaffirming why I quit drinking. I was wary about hearing the chapter on spirituality as i read a review on the book and someone had commented that this chapter was about how God was the reason she was able to quit drinking (that was only part of her story), but I enjoyed the chapter and, as someone who believes in something but not specifically a God, I was able to adapt parts to fit my beliefs.
The lady reading the book has such a relaxing, fluid voice, I could listen to her all the time.
I recommend this book to anyone trying to quit drinking and looking for a different angle and constant real life reminders from many different women why you should quit, and for parents who drink around their children.

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Tedious

Romanises drinking and churns out story after tedious story about the well to do's 'problems'. Did not find it helpful or informative. A good read if this is your bag. If not, would recommend Holly Whitaker's 'Quit like a Woman'.

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