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  • Coming of Age

  • How Adolescence Shapes Us
  • By: Lucy Foulkes
  • Narrated by: Katherine Press
  • Length: 7 hrs and 27 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (15 ratings)

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By: Lucy Foulkes
Narrated by: Katherine Press
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Adolescence is the most formative yet misunderstood period of our lives. At a time of heightened concern about teenagers,
Coming of Age draws on a decade of expert research to get beneath the stereotypes, expose the myths and reveal the important reasons why teens behave the way they do.

Covering all the characteristic behaviours of adolescents - from peer pressure and risk-taking, to sex, love, bullying, friendship and more - adolescent psychologist Lucy Foulkes shows that time and again we mistake, dismiss and even try to prevent what is actually normal and healthy. Among many surprising insights, she explains why self-consciousness, anxiety and sensation-seeking are crucial features of this developmental phase. She shows that teenagers are socially conservative as much as rebellious, and that apparent recklessness is usually calculated. She reveals why being popular can be just as hard as being lonely, and why friendships at this age shape us for life.

Adolescence is often difficult, sometimes extremely so, and most of us have yet to come to terms with our own. And yet Foulkes shows that adolescents have an extraordinary capacity for resilience, empathy and mutual support, and that even the most challenging experiences are part of an essential process of self-discovery. This is why understanding adolescence is the key to understanding ourselves.

'Wonderful and deeply moving . . . shows us the potentially positive aspects of adolescent experiences so often seen as negative' MARK HADDON

'Excellent and insightful . . . expertly presented . . . Foulkes is steeped in knowledge about, as well as respect for, teenage life' Observer

‘Wise and compassionate, well-researched and straight-talking . . . shows how today's adolescents can be helped to flourish in life’ Dr Gavin Francis, author of Recovery

‘Hopeful, inspiring . . . leaves you with a greater understanding of your own adolescence, and greater compassion for those currently in its throes’ Camilla Nord, author of The Balanced Brain

'Myth-busting . . . eye-opening . . . delivers many counter-intuitive insights' Guardian

‘A must read for everyone interested in what is going on with adolescents’ Essi Viding, Professor of Developmental Pyschopathy, UCL

‘Compelling, useful and fascinating . . . revealing adolescence's unwritten rules’ JO BRAND

‘Comprehensive, accessible and super useful’ Dr Tara Porter, clinical psychologist and author of You Don't Understand Me

©2024 Lucy Foulkes (P)2024 Penguin Audio
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Best if it’s kind

I’ve read/listened to a few books about adolescence and this is my far the one that resonated with me the most.

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A powerful read for those in search of acceptance and closure of difficult times

A perfect mix of psychology principles and real life accounts. My adolescence years were incredibly difficult, in fact my 31 years on this earth have been. This book has given me a much needed understanding and reframing of those years and life to date in general. It’s helped me accept and make peace with who I was and who I am today, something which I never thought I could achieve.

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Explains why we're the adults we are.

By describing how experiences shape us at such a formative age and how small variations from the norm can persist into adulthood, this book shines a light on all of us.

I found the book both difficult to accept, particularly how critical cultural norms are to adolescents functioning and also deeply encouraging, where the most horrendous of experiences were overcome.

As a teacher of 11 to 18 year old, I have the privilege of working with adolescents every day and I recognised almost all of the scenarios covered. I think this is just the starting point as a book. I would have liked much more insight into adolescent behaviour from a biological point of view added too, why don't many like getting up for school? Why they are such exponents of fairness, passionate about causes, fiercely loyal? These themes were only briefly touched on.

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interesting and thought provoking

a good level- lots of facts but not too dense. heartbreaking in places but ultimately uplifting

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